Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Conflict Resolution Scenarios


Conflict resolution scenarios


A. You and your best friend have always played soccer together on town and recreational
teams. You both try out for the travel team. You make it and your friend doesn't. At first
your friend claims not to care, but you soon realize your friend is very angry. Your friend
doesn't want to spend as much time together as you used to, and, of course, you have daily
practices and games your friend doesn't attend. What do you do?


B. Your friend tells you a secret in absolute confidence. You don't really mean to, but you tell
another friend. Soon the whole camp seems to know what your friend's secret is. Your
friend is really mad at you. Your other friends are also upset that you revealed the secret.
What do you do?


C.Your little sister (or brother) can be a real pain. Whenever you have friends over, she wants
to do everything with you. She annoys you by following you around, interrupting when
you're talking, and demanding a turn in everything you do. It is very hard to find some
privacy with your friends when she is around. What do you do?


D. You are invited to go to the mall with a new group of friends. You don't know them that
well, but are excited that they included you in their plans. When you go into a crowded
music store, you think you see one of them slip a CD into a pocket without paying. What do
you do?



Thank you to Garry Zweig for submitting this to our blog

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Interesting Ways to get to know Students

After participating in a twitter chat for middle school teachers (#mschat)  I asked the moderator  for some advisory ideas and this is some of the feedback I got. It is great to have a network of people to count on and even better when they share great resources. Thanks again Todd!
Check out the link of 36 interesting ways to get to know your students. And join in the twitter chat on Thursday nights at 8:00pm. See you then.
https://docs.google.com/present/view?id=dhn2vcv5_650dvtj3dgk

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Welcome Back 2012-13

The advisory blog is a great place to find activities and ideas to use with your advisory group. If you have any ideas to share please let me know and I will post them to the blog.
Have a great year!
Heather

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

The Cup Game

The Cup Game, a game of following directions, coordination, and team-work, was a huge success in my advisory last week! First, I showed students some student pros, using this video:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adrITOXR1U4



and then we practiced slowly with the help of this tutorial, previously posted by John Lento.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Grb1oa72kmk&noredirect=1


Thanks to Katie Pearce

Friday, February 3, 2012

People First Language

Great article about inclusion, freedom and respect for all by Kathie Snow.  To read the complete article, click on the picture above.  For more information and more resources, visit http://www.disabilityisnatural.com/

Inspiring Video

Check out this inspiring video about a man named Patrick Henry Hughes.


Thursday, February 2, 2012

The Power of Words


Check out this video a great discussion starter about the power of words. 
Does how you say something matter? 

Submitted by Eileen Mangicapre

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Change For A Dollar Movie

Change For A Dollar Movie: Is he asking for Change, or is he asking for CHANGE? Follow a man as he affects multiple peoples' lives with just one dollar, proving that it doesn't take much to be the change in someone's life. Written and directed by Sharon Wright.


Thanks to Dee Elzer for sharing this video.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Soles4Souls

http://www.soles4souls.org/

Randi Falow would like us all to participate in gathering shoes for this charity. Please take a look at the website and let her know if you would like to have your advisory participate.
Soles4Souls is a Nashville-based charity that collects shoes from the warehouses of footwear companies and the closets of people like you. The charity distributes these shoes to people in need, regardless of race, religion, class, or any other criteria. Since 2005, Soles4Souls has delivered over 16 million pairs of new and gently worn shoes. The shoes have been distributed to people in over 127 countries, including Kenya, Thailand, Nepal and the United States.

Friday, November 18, 2011

Why Advisory?

In a keynote speech at the AMLE Secretary of Education Arne Duncan mentioned a study that cited only half of middle schools had advisory. Why is advisory important? Experts from AMLE have put together an answer here.
http://www.amle.org/Publications/MiddleLevelInsider/JustAsk/tabid/2395/Default.aspx

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Habits of Mind

Last year our Shared Decision Making committee investigated the Habits of Mind. In our student plan books the 16 habits are listed. Advisory might be a great time to take a look at these habits and begin a discussion with the students.

Here is a link to a great article that describes the Habits of Mind.
http://www.ascd.org/publications/books/108008/chapters/Describing-the-Habits-of-Mind.aspx
Below is a slideshare that can be shared with your advisory to illustrate the Habits of Mind.


Thursday, October 13, 2011

Some sites from Dee Elzer

Dee sent me some sites for us to use in Advisory. Please take a look.
This clip on geotagging is well-worth the few minutes it takes to watch. My thanks to Phil Nespeca for forwarding it to me.


Please view at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2vARzvWxwY

Another site that Dee recommended was:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BewknNW2b8Y&feature=player_embedded


Thank you for your time.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

The First Advisory

Our first advisory is almost here and I wanted to remind you where you can find ideas for lessons. This blog is a great place to find ideas and share them as well. If you would like to post and idea please let me know and I will give you access as a contributor.
In the library there are several books available.
Here is a link to a post that was made last year:
http://smsadvisory.blogspot.com/2010/09/library-materials-available.html#links

Here is a link to some Icebreaker activities that may be helpful:
http://wilderdom.com/games/Icebreakers.html

Enjoy your Advisory and have Fun!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Welcome back!

Welcome back!
Gina Cacioppo shared this with me and asked that I share it with all of you.
Just wanted to share a special on Bullying covered by dateline NBC. The special addressed not only the agressor and victim, but the bystanders and concept of peer pressure. I find this topic very important to the health and wellbeing of our students. I have attached links to a few clips of the show.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vk_k2pnMO9o&NR=1 GIRLS

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=6W9N9ZDBA1M BOYS

The topic of bullying is very close to my heart.



Monday, May 2, 2011

Best of Advisory 2010-2011

As the school year comes to a close it is always a good time to reflect on the lessons we've taught. Advisory has been a wonderful way  for us to get to know our students better and for them to get to know each other.
Below are some  advisory ideas from colleagues that they have found to be successful.

Submitted by Marcy Tretler
I have used activities from a book borrowed from the library called A Treasure Chest A Teacher Advisory Source Book.  One that the kids seemed to respond to was a story called "Duck's Best Friends". In it, the class teases a boy because he is clumsy and constantly falls. They find out he is seriously ill and will not be returning to school. The  class is upset with their own behavior. We talked about what you can learn from this story.

Submitted by Margo Christopher and Katie Pearce (there is also a prior post)
You Tube-Kid and Marshmallow Test
Here is brief description.
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=kid+and+marschmallow&aq=f
In this YouTube, a child is given a marshmallow on a plate and told to sit in a room. Before leaving, an adult tells the child he can eat the marshmallow now or wait until the adult comes back and get two marshmallows. It is quite cute to see how these children react. Discussions about instant gratification, patience, as well as cheating can be initiated from this Youtube.

Submitted by Ellen Goltzer

Activity #1 - Something About Me - Silly Putty StyleWhen Advisory started in the beginning of the school year, I brought in a silly putty for each student. I asked them to create something that would describe them or something they liked to do. The kids really enjoyed it and I got to know something new about each student. Activity #2 - Let's Make The Pieces Fit?I wanted to incorporate the importance of teamwork so I brought in an old puzzle I had at home. It has oversized pieces and when completed it is 4' x 4'. Each student received 4 pieces and they had to work together to put the puzzle together on the floor. It was cool how they all assisted each other. Then we talked about the importance of teamwork.
I would be happy to lend out any of these materials if you are interested.


Submitted by Dee Elzer
In my advisory I used this youtube video about how photos taken with smart phones can be used to track down where the photo was taken. We discussed geo-tagging and how parents can track their children on google earth/maps. We also discussed how 'bad' people can get information about where they/the students hang out and live through their photos that are posted on sharing sites.
Great short video to spark conversation.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2vARzvWxwY

Submitted by Gina Cartolano

The link below takes you to the Rock or Feather activity that was posted in a prior blog post.
http://smsadvisory.blogspot.com/2011/03/education-world-lesson-planning-rock-or.html

Another activity submitted by Gina involves having students choose solutions to social situations they may have to deal with. The link below will take you to the document called Advisory 4 Corners situations.
https://sites.google.com/site/greatnecksouthmiddleadvisory/blog-resources

Submitted by Randi Falow
2 session Advisory activity


#1
1. I brought in a voodoo doll that had pins and several messages on it. Some were positive messages like win money, some were negative like be prosecuted for tax fraud. I asked the kids, before passing the doll around the room, if they thought it would work. They all said no. They did, however, all want to poke the doll.


2. This discussion went on to include things you can do when you are angry that allow your feelings to come out, but don’t hurt anyone, anything, or anyone’s feelings. Everyone took a turn placing pins on the doll. This was deemed therapeutic.


3. I gave out slips of paper and told everyone to write something bad that they had said or done, something they wish they could take back. Names were NOT written on slips of paper. We placed all the papers in a bag and I shook the bag. I ripped up the bag and the contents and absolved everyone of what they had done. Tiny pieces of paper were recycled. We called for a “new beginning.”


4. The students were asked, “Is it ever right to wish that bad things happen others?” What about people like Qaddafi ? “ The group decided that it was ALWAYS wrong, no matter what, to wish bad things to happen to others.
#2
We made paper fortune tellers with positive things you can wish others.
Susan Zucker did a great job showing the students how. Also, there are great instructions on youtube.


Submitted by Marissa Koch
My students really enjoyed Two Truths and One Lie. For this activity, they write three sentences about themselves, two that are true and one that is a lie, and the class has to guess which are the truths and which is the lie.


Submitted by John Lento
The Cup Game
Watch the youtube video with the students and follow the directions. 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Grb1oa72kmk

I had them do it individually at first.
Once they got it, they played in groups.
They had a lot of fun.  It was a good team-building activity.









Please don't be shy send your best ideas to be posted.

Friday, March 4, 2011

Follow up to Rock and Feather Activity

#comments-
Tried this activity in my advisory today and it was fun. The kids enjoyed it and it really got them talking. Some of them did not want to choose a category but were able to describe why. Even the quiet students in my advisory were willing to speak. This activity inspired a lot of interesting conversations and helped me get to know the students even better.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Education World ® : Lesson Planning: Rock or Feather: A Critical-Thinking Activity

Education World ® : Lesson Planning: Rock or Feather: A Critical-Thinking Activity

A great idea to get the kids thinking and discussions flowing. Give it a try and see how it goes. I will be letting you know how it goes for me as I am trying it on Friday.

Monday, December 6, 2010

The Marshmallow Test

Hi all Katie Pearce sent me an activity that she had great success with in her Advisory. So here are the links.
The original article from the New Yorker Magazine was 4 pages so she condensed it. Students watch the video and then respond to the discussion questions and create their own test.

Kid & The Marshmallow Test - youtube video


The New Yorker
Don’t!


The secret of self-control.

by Jonah Lehrer May 18, 2009

In the late nineteen-sixties, Carolyn Weisz, a four-year-old with long brown hair, was invited into a “game room” at the Bing Nursery School, on the campus of Stanford University. The room was little more than a large closet, containing a desk and a chair. Carolyn was asked to sit down in the chair and pick a treat from a tray of marshmallows, cookies, and pretzel sticks. Carolyn chose the marshmallow. Although she’s now forty-four, Carolyn still has a weakness for those air-puffed balls of corn syrup and gelatine. “I know I shouldn’t like them,” she says. “But they’re just so delicious!” A researcher then made Carolyn an offer: she could either eat one marshmallow right away or, if she was willing to wait while he stepped out for a few minutes, she could have two marshmallows when he returned. He said that if she rang a bell on the desk while he was away he would come running back, and she could eat one marshmallow but would forfeit the second. Then he left the room.


Although Carolyn has no direct memory of the experiment, and the scientists would not release any information about the subjects, she strongly suspects that she was able to delay gratification. “I’ve always been really good at waiting,” Carolyn told me. “If you give me a challenge or a task, then I’m going to find a way to do it, even if it means not eating my favorite food.” Her mother, Karen Sortino, is still more certain: “Even as a young kid, Carolyn was very patient. I’m sure she would have waited.” But her brother Craig, who also took part in the experiment, displayed less fortitude. Craig, a year older than Carolyn, still remembers the torment of trying to wait. “At a certain point, it must have occurred to me that I was all by myself,” he recalls. “And so I just started taking all the candy.”
Footage of these experiments, which were conducted over several years, is poignant, as the kids struggle to delay gratification for just a little bit longer. Some cover their eyes with their hands or turn around so that they can’t see the tray. Others start kicking the desk, or tug on their pigtails, or stroke the marshmallow as if it were a tiny stuffed animal. One child, a boy with neatly parted hair, looks carefully around the room to make sure that nobody can see him. Then he picks up an Oreo, delicately twists it apart, and licks off the white cream filling before returning the cookie to the tray, a satisfied look on his face.
Most of the children were like Craig. They struggled to resist the treat and held out for an average of less than three minutes. “A few kids ate the marshmallow right away,” Walter Mischel, the Stanford professor of psychology in charge of the experiment, remembers. “They didn’t even bother ringing the bell. Other kids would stare directly at the marshmallow and then ring the bell thirty seconds later.” About thirty per cent of the children, however, were like Carolyn. They successfully delayed gratification until the researcher returned, some fifteen minutes later. These kids wrestled with temptation but found a way to resist.

The initial goal of the experiment was to identify the mental processes that allowed some people to delay gratification while others simply surrendered. After publishing a few papers on the Bing studies in the early seventies, Mischel moved on to other areas of personality research. “There are only so many things you can do with kids trying not to eat marshmallows.”

Once Mischel began analyzing the results over a long period of time, he noticed that low delayers, the children who immediately gave in, seemed more likely to have behavioral problems, both in school and at home. They got lower S.A.T. scores. They struggled in stressful situations, often had trouble paying attention, and found it difficult to maintain friendships. The child who could wait fifteen minutes had an S.A.T. score that was, on average, two hundred and ten points higher than that of the kid who could wait only thirty seconds.


1. What do you think of the results of the study?

2. How do you think self control can help you in school? How does it make you a better student?

3. Why would someone with self control be a more dependable person?

4. What are some things that you have difficulty controlling in your life?
5. Design your own marshmallow test...what items could you use to "tempt" other students in your advisory group?